Don't Crash

Twice this week I have been driving and the traffic suddenly came to a stand still. I stop, however, I noticed that the car behind me is coming down so fast they may not be able to stop. I'm trapped, the only thing I can do is press down on my brake, prepare for impact, and say a prayer. Thankfully, none of these incidences resulted in an accident. The first car shifted onto the shoulder and completed his stop, and the second car sharply changed lanes to avoid  impact.

Life happens like this sometimes, doesn't it? Sometimes things just come crashing into us over and over and we try to get our bearings. Sometimes we can switch lanes to avoid impact, and other times we just have to bare down and prepare for impact. There are times when we are the ones going too fast. We keep going and going and then, bam, something causes us to stop. Over the past year I have found myself on both ends of these roads. What do you do when you find yourself in this position? For me it is usually prayer, game planning, and more prayer.

It is hard going through the midst of difficulty, turmoil, or what feels like downright bad luck. We acknowledge as humans we are not exempt from tough situations. Sometimes we feel like we are drowning under all the things weighing us down. Then days become weeks, weeks become months, and somehow we have peeled one thing off and then the next and then the next. Other times it is just one big burden that may take months or even years to unload. It is difficult when your going through such things, and I also find it difficult watching my family and friends go through these stages. I naturally would like to find a way to unburden them or make their load a little lighter. However, many times it is out of my hands. I can only offer my ear, a hug, a prayer. Maybe, that is more than enough.

These two near crashing moments were a reminder for me. A reminder of the brevity of life. How quickly it can be taken away. It led me to think of where I am in my personal life, career, and even more importantly my spiritual life. I was reminded to live every day with purpose and on purpose. What can I do better? How can I be impactful? We go on everyday and sometimes we forget we are here for a reason. I believe we all have been destined to fulfill a purpose that is specific to each of us individually. My prayer tonight will be to ensure that my plans are in line with God's plans. That I don't miss out on fulfilling my designated task while here on earth. While I seek to figure that out, or at least ensure that I am on the right path; I hope to touch a life along the way. I hope to impact someone in a way they will always remember. I hope to be a good daughter, sister, friend, neighbor, etc. Lastly, I hope when life comes crashing down, I will remember to hold on to my foundation of love and faith.

Until next time,

Live, Laugh, Love & Don't Crash

Jer 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.